When people bring a feeling to get upset with them don’t. Do what Jesus would do. Show love and kindness,listen and use your words to build each other up. With God’s help this is much easier to do in the spirit. Listening to the spirit instead of the flesh is rewarding.
Use your words to build each other up. Pleasant words are like honey comb,sweet to the soul,and health to the bones.
Proverbs 16:24 King James Version (KJV)
24 Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones